Different phases, different faces

If you come to think of it you’ll find that over the years the faces change and so do you. You’re attraction to them and things either grows or fades.

So if we know that and have actually experienced it then why do we insist on finding partners that belong to a past phase in our lives?

I mean they belonged then and there, not now and here. We try to search for those that meat past desires.

Ask yourself how many times have you bumped into a face that would have been wonderful back then, never now?

It’s hard to admit, but as we grow and mature (or not) we evolve into another version of ourself that happened based on experiences and encounters.

This new you has new requests.

Whether you admit to what I’m saying or not it doesn’t change the fact that we have evolved and our relationships did too.

So, stop asking why you haven’t found the right partner and complain about how the world has become this unbearable place compared to back then..

Back then you were a different version and today you’re a new updated version.. so the problem is in your search parameters and not the world.

Happy updating and hunting 😉